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Reginald Black

Feb 20, 2017

I can\'t say enough about Kathleen Gingrich. I needed her services at a very difficult time in my life. ...

Deb Hoffert

Feb 08, 2017

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John Arena

Feb 01, 2017

Peter Russo and the staff at his firm have handled my personal and professional business for almost a decade. His ...

rick scott

Feb 01, 2017

Peter was easy to work with and handled my case first class. He was knowledgeable about my case (possible age ...

Jenn Spears Brenize

Feb 01, 2017

Peter is extremely knowledgeable and aggressive, yet even-tempered. He is professional, diligent, and compassionate, and responsive to his clients\' ...

Kirk Allison

May 05, 2020

Peter was very helpful. Although he was extremely busy preparing for another, probably more serious case, he took time out ...

Nathan Lyons

Sep 30, 2019

Peter and Ashley were amazing to deal with. They were always quick to respond to any questions I had and ...

kai

Apr 04, 2019

great

Lori Keim

Apr 03, 2019

Taking care of necessary family law issues is not fun; but Peter and his staff made it as painless as ...

Yvonne

Apr 03, 2019

Pete’s office did a fantastic job on my settlement, they made the process very smooth, and ensured I understood ...

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Parenting Plan? What’s That?

Parenting Plan? What’s That?

A parenting plan is simply a legal agreement that two separated or divorced parents sit down and make together.  Basically, it is simply a specific schedule for the children and the parents and allows some semblance of order into the chaos.  This plan is designed to outline where visitation will take place, when it will take place, and the living situation for the children from here on out.  A parenting plan also offers the opportunity for parents to work together and develop a plan. The sooner a parenting plan is put into place the better off your children will be.  This is because the plan minimizes chaos and confusion for your children during the process of going from a two parent home to two one parent homes.  Simply put, the parenting plan basically spells out how you, the other parent, and the children will live life during and after the divorce.  Special consideration should be taken during the process of negotiating this type of plan because it allows the process of transitioning to be easier for the entire family.  There are numerous things that should be taken into consideration when you are developing this plan.

The first, and most important, thing you should think about is the needs of the children and their perspective/viewpoint on the situation.  You need to make sure that the parenting plan is strong enough that it provides structure, but flexible enough that both parents are spending time with the child.  The first plan should be a trial plan.  Set a date a few months from starting the plan to make any necessary revisions.  By constructing a trial plan first, you will be able to go back and make any necessary changes if you see that the needs of your children are not being met effectively.

You also need to keep in mind that the plan you put in place for a younger child will not work for an older one.  The parenting plan should be adjusted as your child grows and their needs change.  It should also specifically address what will happen with each child.  There should be a schedule in place for when each parent will have the children.  Information about who takes care of what, provides what care, is responsible for expenses of care, and is responsible for children when they are not with the parents (like when they are at school, which parent will the school call first?) should be included.

The plan should also include guidelines for how the parents will treat each other when children are around.  Think of the parenting plan as a business plan; conduct yourself in a businesslike way in order to keep conflict and chaos away from your children.  Include where your children will be during the weekdays and on the weekends.  Plan out a holiday schedule, the best way to do the holiday schedule is to make a list of the holidays, and divide them up.  If it is best, the holiday plan can be one parent has them half the day and the other parent the other half, and then you could alternate each year.  For example, one parent would have the children in the morning on Christmas every odd numbered year, and the other would have them on the even numbered years.  It’s important to include every detail in this plan.  These are just a few of the many things that should be included.

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